http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/ Female Domination Worship and Community Blog Thu, 29 Jul 2010 20:30:34 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.2 http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-67414 Mon, 12 Apr 2010 01:18:39 +0000 http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-67414 For me, it is definitely a control/power dynamic that draws me. I do find it just a little humorous too!! For me, it is definitely a control/power dynamic that draws me. I do find it just a little humorous too!!

]]> http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-65970 Tue, 09 Feb 2010 04:31:06 +0000 http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-65970 I agree with Laura - the severe face does not make us more dominant, and smile doesn't make our thoughts less mischievous ;) I often laugh when playing as the subs are there to entertain me, not opposite - and the better they perform, the more fun I have... I agree with Laura - the severe face does not make us more dominant, and smile doesn’t make our thoughts less mischievous
I often laugh when playing as the subs are there to entertain me, not opposite - and the better they perform, the more fun I have…

]]> http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-65123 Thu, 14 Jan 2010 02:52:15 +0000 http://www.femdomfetishblog.com/2009/12/24/why-a-sub/#comment-65123 The perfect male submissive is an unreality. Things I look for in a man as a submissive are understanding that there is more to our relationship than D/s. I want conversation and someone to laugh with too. A warm body to share the bed or get out of it and back into his bondage if the mood to be wicked strikes me. I don't like the term vanilla in the way people see it as BDSM and everything else is vanilla. Vanilla play is part of the whole for me. It is from the everyday that I get my best inspiration for enjoying him in his submission. For me the play is not some big production but an extension of sex, foreplay and passion. Domming is fun for me. Yes, it is also a turn on physically, mentally and emotionally but I like to laugh too. I like to have him in bondage twitching and squirming and see the humour in all of it. He does look funny. The penis itself is crude and funny looking. No wonder it makes such a good toy, such a good way to torment and tease him. Being a Dominant is fun. When I stop having fun with it something is wrong. If I start to feel I'm just going through the motions to please him I know I have gotten off track. This basic fact gets missed in a lot of the literature, illustrations and talk about what female domination is. The perfect male submissive is an unreality. Things I look for in a man as a submissive are understanding that there is more to our relationship than D/s. I want conversation and someone to laugh with too. A warm body to share the bed or get out of it and back into his bondage if the mood to be wicked strikes me. I don’t like the term vanilla in the way people see it as BDSM and everything else is vanilla. Vanilla play is part of the whole for me. It is from the everyday that I get my best inspiration for enjoying him in his submission. For me the play is not some big production but an extension of sex, foreplay and passion. Domming is fun for me. Yes, it is also a turn on physically, mentally and emotionally but I like to laugh too. I like to have him in bondage twitching and squirming and see the humour in all of it. He does look funny. The penis itself is crude and funny looking. No wonder it makes such a good toy, such a good way to torment and tease him. Being a Dominant is fun. When I stop having fun with it something is wrong. If I start to feel I’m just going through the motions to please him I know I have gotten off track. This basic fact gets missed in a lot of the literature, illustrations and talk about what female domination is.

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