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October 20, 2008

Fight The Kinky Porn Ban

For the first time in the western world, when extreme image clauses come into effect in January 2009 it will be illegal for anyone in England and Wales to POSSESS such an image. The central issue here is not whether violent and abusive behaviour is defensible. It is not, as everyone agrees. Rather, the issue is whether this proposal will criminalise non-abusive activities engaged in by consenting adults. It seems crazy that we live in a world where Hollywood produce movies of murder, rape and serial killers, our news programs show daily images of war, people being blown up, shot, killed and abused. But no, the attack by the powers that be is as it always is - against porn - movies and images of consenting adults indulged in fetish activities.

The question that immediately follows is this: if the activities or material in question are not abusive, should they be outlawed because some (even most) people find them distasteful? It is worth remembering that a majority once took that view on homosexuality.

The Consenting Adult Action Network - CAAN - are organising an action day against the upcoming law. As a British citizen with a keen interest in cuckoldry, fetish and femdom erotica I am very concerned about the Government making criminals out of people LOOKING at kinky porn with CONSENTING ADULTS. It’s just one step away from thought crime. Very, very scary. Please help spread the word and show your support by fighting this ban on our freedom.

London - 21st October 2008 - 12:00

St. Stevens Tavern, Bridge Street, London SW1A 2JR - then after to The Houses of Parliament

CAAN are back in London again on 21st October for another awareness raising action against the kinky porn ban and for the freedom of consenting adults to express their sexualities.

We’ve tried being reasonable and now it’s time to be a little bit more interesting..

If you can attend the action to leaflet and so on, or are able to assist with things behind the scenes like transporting equipment, people, or donating resources during the time surrounding the action, please get in touch with us ASAP at info@caan.org.uk or via the web-form.

If anyone feels generous cash wise and is able to donate towards either materials for the action or getting people there who would come if they could afford it, please contact us at the address above.

“We believe in the right of consenting adults to make their own sexual choices, in respect of what they do, see and enjoy alone or with other consenting adults, unhindered and unfettered by government."

"We believe that it is not the business of government to intrude into the sex lives of consenting adults.”

If you’d like to support this simple notion, please Sign Up


Visit The Consenting Adult Action Network CAAN Here


October 2, 2008

An Old Flame

First a confession. I’m a married man who fell in love with another women. It’s an old story, I know. It started out as fun - for both of us. But then it got serious. I was madly in love with her and she with me. In the end, I couldn’t do what I promised. I couldn’t leave my wife. My lover cut it off abruptly and finally.

That’s why I was surprised when three years later she emailed me. Her life had changed and she wanted me one more time. I was thrilled. I told her I would meet her anywhere under any circumstances she wanted.

Then I got a call at work. “Yesterday”, she said, “I sent you a package overnight. You might want to get it before your wife does”. And then she hung up. I know what time the mail arrives. She called at 2:00. I told my boss, I suddenly felt sick. That wasn’t much of a stretch. I got home before my wife and intercepted the package.

It contained a pair of hot pink panties and a set of instructions. Tomorrow night I was to wear the panties under a tee-shirt and a pair of shorts and stand outside a bar in a nearby town. She made it clear that this was my one chance to be with her and if I blew it, I’d never hear from her again.

We had a pretty kinky sex life, so I wasn’t entirely shocked. It sounded like just the right mixture of danger and anticipation. I willingly complied.

I waited outside the bar for 20 minutes when she finally arrived. She looked gorgeous. She pulled up in front of me and told me to get in. She looked at me up and down. Frankly I was a little surprised at her stare. It was bold and all business. “Get in” was all she said. I did. “Did you follow my instructions?”

“Yes, of course”, I said, trying to sound casual.

“Show me.”. I unsnapped my shorts to show the lacy panties she had picked out for me.

“Give me the shorts..” It was about 7:00pm and not quite dark. It was a little risky but I was anxious to show that I would meet her on her terms. I took them off and handed them to her. She took them, got out of the car and put them in the trunk.

When she got back in the car, she was much friendlier. She hugged me and said she missed me so much. With one hand rubbing my crotch she spoke softly in my ear. “This is going to be fun, I can’t wait to fuck you.”

I was hooked at that point. As she drove away, she told me that we could be a regular thing again. I just had to let her do it her way. My feelings just rushed over me. I do really love her. I would do anything to have her back in my life.

She drove to a 7-11 and parked far from the door. “Wait here, I need a few things.”

Like I was going anywhere. She took the keys. People walked by. I pulled my shirt down, so I don’t think they could see anything. But I swear people were looking at me as they waked by..

It seemed like an eternity but she came back. She got in the car and gave me another up and down look. “You OK?”

“I’m fine”, I lied. She laughed. “With your shirt pulled down I can’t see those cute panties I bought for you”. She reached over and tied a knot in the front of my tee-shirt the way girls do to show over their flat stomachs.

“God. I can’t wait to fuck you.” Again she caressed me. I was hard and ready. It must of looked ridiculous to see my pink panties and huge erection pushing out.

She drove to a somewhat infamous motel and parked at the far end of the lot. It was poorly lit, so I was a grateful.

“I’ll get us a room.” She came back. It seemed like forever. She came to my side of the car and opened the door. She could tell from my look that this was farther than I wanted to go. She just laughed. “Come on sweetie, it’ll be fun”.

Reluctantly, I got out of the car. Nobody was in the parking lot, but it was a long way. I couldn’t slip down in the seat, or hide from peoples stares. Finally I decided that I’d go. Even if someone saw me, in this part of town they wouldn’t recognize me. She held my arm and we walked to the room.

People did walk by. I was humiliated and bright red. I kept my eyes down and kept walking. She looked at each of them with a knowing smile. It said, “Yes I’m a hooker, but he’s really the weird one”. She walked to the motel room door and fumbled with the key. She dropped it. I’m sure it was on purpose but she looked at me with that smile that said, “Yes, I am enjoying this”. Finally she opened the door.

Inside she gave me a full body hug. That kind of hug that made me forget everything else. I wanted her.

- To Be Continued…

Submitted by: Mike