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September 30, 2005

Why so appealing?

What makes the Dominant Female so appealing and such a sexual icon?

It’s a aspect that often crosses my mind. A desire to be within the control of a powerful woman, to be humiliated and belittled. To experience pain at the hands of this Goddess and to enjoy it. Strange when you think about it.

And the complex practices that are involved, personally I am more in the humiliation camp than the CP one, but there are hundreds of factors at play here that make up the way in which we want to be dominated that I’m sure would baffle the world’s leading psychologists.

I’m sure a lot is due to our twisted childhood and strict schooling. Finding fetish porn at age 12 probably didn’t help much either. LOL

I remember a game we used to play at school. Yes I was a pervert even then ;) The girls would all get the boys to go hide in the fields and then they’d come looking for us. If they found us they would hold us down and put grass down our pants and smear dirt and mud on our faces. I always seemed to allow myself to get captured. I remember one time when I was ‘caught’, an older girl called Justine got the girls to hold down my wrists and she proceeded to spit onto my face. It was probably the most erotic experience of my childhood.

A dominant, powerful Woman is an instant turn-on for me but what I find strange is that I am quite a control orientated person. I run my own life and business, make my own decisions and tend not to let anyone influence or do anything for me. I am not a ‘needy’ person emotionally or have any desires to be attached lovingly to one single person.

Under a Dominatrix though I lose all control, my decisions are made for me, my actions are useless. I am ordered what to do and when to do it. I have total desire and love for my Mistress I am under a spell and most obey. This reversal of personality is baffling and I am at a loss to explain the change of personality here.

I grew up in a culture that deemed men to be the dominant force in a relationship. Of course, even more prominent this was a generation before. Even today some men can not conceive that a male would willingly submit to a Woman. So the Femdom lifestyle is something that goes against the grain of historic culture…. but so do I. I hate establishment and conventional thinking I like alternative in everything and especially, music, politics, arts, porn and Women.

Thankfully the old masculine attitudes are getting drowned out, the old voices are becoming weaker and are now generally ridiculed by the majority of people.

So why so appealing? I’m not entirely sure but what I do know is that Women are the new superior gender. The male population better get used to it.



September 29, 2005

Mean Bitches

Where do I start? As anyone knows a new website takes a while to get off the ground. So for a while I’m sure I’ll be making posts and there won’t be too many people coming across them but that’s not going to distract from the quality and diversity of Femdom I want to display here. There is far too much poor quality rubbish on the net and within this lifestyle niche and I can assure you that this will always be an informative, content rich community blog and banner free zone.

As my first major post I want to bring your attention to the amazing Mean Bitches website and briefly general gripe I have about the Femdom image.

I don’t know if other subs feel this way but I am very keen to see more Dom Women in feminine dress more often. It seems as soon as you venture into a ‘Dominant/Submissive Lifetsyle’ you immediately have to have a Dom dressed from head to toe in leather, spiked over-knee boots, hair scrapped back, paddle in hand.

Well I love seeing Dom Women dressed in more of a ‘girlie’ way. Maybe because in every day life you never see a leather-clad Dominatrix walking down the street and you can relate more to conventionally dressed women. That’s what I love about Mean Bitches and video production companies like Anaconda, they are appealing as their Goddesses are dressed in more of an everyday style. Sometimes just jeans and a halter top - fantastic!!!

Also while I’m on the subject - dress codes at Fetish Clubs… Yes some people really like to get the latex and leather out and get dressed up and of course it’s a important part of lifestyle iconography but just sometimes as a sub I’d like to not have to wear the leather pants and dog collar just to get past the door and the joy of being dominated by a woman in a frilly skirt and cowboy boots… Just a thought…

So onto Mean Bitches and their superb website. The resident Mistresses are all beautiful, some are working adult models and the themes they cover include Facesitting, Ass Worship, Foot Worship, Cuckolding and more… They only put Mistresses on the site who truly enjoy tormenting and destroying men. Although some are more dominant than others, they all enjoy Femdom to some degree. Many of the Mistresses on the site have had full-time slaves at one point in their lives.

Mercedes Ashley is one of the Mean Bitches on the site. She is a grogeous latina and famous pornstar with a real wild side. Here’s what she has to say on her dominant side:

“I am a sweet, loving chica… unless you piss me off. I have a bit of a temper problem. If my man fucks up, he will hear about it! I have been known to get so mad that I leave permament scars…on girls or guys. If my man gets out of line, I am not afraid to knock him on his ass. Don’t call me unless you like it rough, chico.”

“I love to make guys eat my pussy. Not like where I lay on my back with my ass on a pillow and he gently licks my clit….I like it NASTY. I like it when the guy is on his knees and I grind my pussy in his face. I grab his hair and pull his face in. That way I can direct him to do it just the way I like. When I cum, I dig my nails into his neck and pull his head in hard, so he can swallow my juices.”

“I get wild. Want to party with me? Think you can handle a wild Puerto Rican girl? Are you man enough? Are you a good hombre? Call me baby… I do bachelor parties and private shows all the time. Think you can take my strapon? Want to see this perfect ass right in front of your face?”

Interested? Her contact details are on the site.

Mercedes Ashley

Mercedes Ashley

Visit Mean Bitches Here


September 26, 2005


Welcome to the newest corner of the vast jungle of the Internet.

This is the first ever article on hopefully what will become a huge collection of comments, observations, reviews, stories, confessions, true life experiences, Femdom related sites and much much more celebrating the Dominant Woman and the lifestyle.

Participation is essential to get us going, please feel free to submit your own comments, feelings, experiences and stories or maybe write some blogs that we can publish here.

So, some background on why I created this blog: For a long while now I have held desires to be submissive to women, to serve them, to honor them, to be at the mercy of them.

So this site - Femdom Fetish Blog - is something I have wanted to create for some time. A place to worship and discuss women of power and to also revel in my love of being subservient to them. I want this to be a real adventure into the world of female domination. I will be experiencing first-hand a variety of dominatrix and posting my interaction with them right here and I want to encourage you to do the same with your own experiences.

Send and submit your true stories, your fantasies and your desires. Tell us which Mistresses you’d like to dominated by and what you’d like them to do to you. Tell us about your lifestyle and the social events that cater to your fetish.

I also plan to profile and interview Dom Women here and discuss the various practices they undertake and most enjoy.

Join me on this adventure into worship and servitude. Submit your stories and fantasies here

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